“Bite me,” the man snarled at me
as my bike tires screeched to a stopping halt. He stared back at me, his tiny
Welsh corgi sniffing in the grass beside the trail, causing the leash around
his neck to form a tight line across the path.
“Oh,
I’m…I’m sorry,” I replied. And I steered my shiny new blue bike into the grass
around his dog. I followed the path for a bit longer, passing some hardcore
cyclists in skin clinging body suits that gave me a condescending frown as if I
were not worthy to share the trail. Garbage littered the sides of the path –
empty McDonald’s bags and soda cans and the occasional used condom left
from spontaneous forest teenage fornication.
I
hung my head low, turned around, and rode my bike back home.
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It
took me a few weeks to save up the money and work up the courage to wander, completely clueless, into a bike
shop.
“Can
I help you?” a young guy asked as the store front door bells jingled at my
entrance.
“Yes,
well…I think I want to buy a bike. The last time I had a bike, I was like
thirteen so I’m a little bit clueless about what I need to get.”
The
worker was an obvious bicycle aficionado – he explained to me the different
types of bikes and brands and prices and sizing and my mind swirled with all of
the options – when did bikes become so complicated?
“Try
this one,” he said, lowering a bicycle with a navy blue frame and white trim
onto the floor in front of me.
I
awkwardly swung my leg over the frame, positioned myself into the seat, and
unsteadily pedaled forward. Wobbly as a drunken sailor, I barreled through the
middle of the store, until I came to a stop inches from a group of customers.
I
lowered my feet to the floor. “I like this one. Can I get it today?”
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“This
court sentences you to one year in the county jail,” the judge’s sturdy voice
echoed over and over in my mind and I counted on my fingers… January, February,
March, April, May…June, July. July…July…this is such a long time. How, how will
we ever make it through this? What, what should I do?
I
cried, for a long time, I cried.
And
then at some moment, when I could no longer produce tears, I realized – I was
going to have to get through this time one way or another. I have no power to
change this outcome. I had to stay positive, stay optimistic – it was up to me
whether the temporary loss of my best friend would throw me into a depression
or be a life lesson. Change was going to come, whether I wanted it or not.
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“April 10th, Say
Anything at the Water Street Music Hall” – I clutched the ticket between my
fingers and read it over and over again. “Doors open 6:00PM,” – I looked at the
clock, the back-lit screen flashed “6:30.”
I
got into my car and drove towards the venue. A line weaved around the sidewalk
outside of the concert hall, and I circled and circled around the block – my heart
racing, palms sweating. I pulled into a parking lot, and alone, I walked to the
back of the line.
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I decided to ride my bicycle down
to the public farmer’s market today.
I
crossed over this bridge and slowed down, lingering for a while – gazing at the
river at each side of me, a sight I had never witnessed in this city. Actually,
the bridge had a nice arch to it, so it was a little bit tough to get up the
slope and it slowed me down considerably, but it was more like it majestically
decreased my pace so I could admire the scenery. At the other side of the
bridge, I merged onto a path, passing a nice young bearded fellow on a bike
headed the opposite direction. He smiled. I smiled. In my mind, we shared a
moment of – “hey we’re both chubby, pale, indoors-y people, look at us doing
outside things!”
I
continued down the path, tracing the river, until I reached the
city and ventured to the sidewalk to continue my journey. Once I reached the
road where I needed to turn, I decided that I was really just enjoying the
thrill of exploration and began to take a series of random and unrelated turns
at my heart’s whimsy. Actually, there was construction on the road I needed to
go down and as I attempted to create a detour, I got very, very lost.
I
circled around the streets, trying to find my way back the river. And around
me, I was surrounded by things. There
were people I didn’t know, buildings I never knew existed, streets with names I’d
never encountered. These are the things that frightened me – that scared me from
ever being alive.
I
passed a group of people in the middle of a little park – a family, children
and seniors gathering to take photographs under a large white tent next to a
table full of fruit salads and freshly grilled hot dogs. Nearby, a woman in
raggedy torn clothes dug through a trash can. A young guy walked with two
golden retrievers and a couple walked hand-in-hand to a restaurant. A large
group was gathered around an arena in caps and gowns, snapping photographs with
well-dressed parents and grandparents holding "congrats grad" signs. Life was everywhere.
After
a lot of aimless wandering, I stumbled upon a street that looked familiar: the
sign - Water Street. This was the place that I had seen one of my favorite
bands, where one of my favorite musicians walked right passed me. I knew where
I was now.
I
headed back towards my home. Along the way, I passed another familiar building
– the hall of justice. This is where the courtroom is at, where he was taken
away. The place I left in tears, months ago.
As
I continued down the road, I found myself at the other side of the river that I
had followed before. I looked across and recognized the buildings I had seen
just an hour ago, the place that I had just been. At the end of the road, I had
an option – I could continue along the road I had been down so many times, or I
could follow the path along the river, of which I was uncertain exactly where
it would lead.
I stopped to sit on a rock and have a drink of water.
When I got back on my bike, I steered towards the river trail, and a man was walking
by. I nearly cut in front of him.
The
man just smiled and held his arm out to the side, gesturing for me to pass, “have
a good day!” He said.
“You
too.”